Monday, January 20, 2014

Still Handy, But With Failing Hands

As a guy ages, there’s one uncontested bit of evidence that he’s on the downhill side of life.  I guess it really hit me when one day I happened to take a VERY close look at my hands for the first time.  “Who in the hell do these scarred and wrinkled claws belong to?” I wondered.  “And how and when did they get transplanted onto MY wrists without me knowing?”

 I should have been paying closer attention.  After all, I’d been waking up with pain and stiffness in my fingers for a long time.  And when I played my keyboard it was more difficult to navigate the keys and span an octave with one hand.  And mechanical “clicking” sounds had begun emanating from the joints as if I needed to grab some WD40 and give each one a spritz.

Any older male who has seriously worked with his hands over the years, knows exactly what I mean.   As he senses his two fingered friends are becoming physically limited, it is as mentally devastating as a diagnosis of something lethal.  That’s because as men we derive much of our sense of worth from what we create with our hands.  No matter how insignificant, it is not only proof of our continued relevance, but our masculine way of trying to insure we’ll exist somewhere in the pages of life’s scrapbook long after we expire.

Anyway, it was with a pair of very sad hands that I decided to make two presents this past Christmas.  I figured that while each would take a number of painful weeks to construct, both would be a unique expression of my love for the two recipients.  They would also become a mental link to me, long after the hands that built them were still.

The gift I’m sharing in this  post, then, was for my youngest daughter.  A rabid fan of the “Dr. Who” television program, I thought I’d make her a jewelry box shaped like his Tardis Time Machine.  Here’s a picture of it from the show.  As you can see, it exists in the shape of a police call box.

   The project took almost a month to complete.  The miniature Tardis was about 14” wide, 10” deep, and 18” high.  Everything was handmade, including the light on the roof and the entrance door pulls.  All I purchased was the wood, the hinges, and the blue paint.

In a future post I’ll share the second of my Christmas creations.   Meanwhile, best wishes to each of you for a healthy and productive New Year !  Peace.

Paisano



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1 comment:

bj said...

Totally amazing. You are a wonderful Dad...even though your hands are getting old. It will be what we view later on life, what we have accomplished, that will make our memories sweeter.